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1st September 2008
Empowering Beliefs
High achievers children have strong ‘self-belief’ and it drives them to strive and not give up until they succeed.
If our children have limiting beliefs, like, “I cannot do well in ..” , “I’m not clever”, “I have poor memory” … then chances that they will easily give up or not attempt to put their best.
As parents, let’s take a step back and ask ourselves, ‘where do their beliefs come from?’ Well, teachers, their peers and past experiences will definitely do play a part in influencing the children. Nevertheless, we must understand that it is we parents who play the crucial role in shaping their beliefs. Parents may unknowingly install limiting self-beliefs in their children through the words they used.
If we parents, consciously or unconsciously, keep telling our children that he is ‘naughty’, ‘slow’ or ’lazy‘ or ‘not as clever as so and so’ … soon they will form negative self-image of themselves.
If we parents constantly using encouraging statements like, ‘I believe you can do it!’, “You are a winner!”, “If you work hard you can achieve it” , they will not easily influenced by negative experiences and remarks from peers and teachers.
How can we then instill new empowering beliefs? We can constantly emphasizing and leading them to believe that they can achieve anything with the right strategy and it is the way they choose to think and act that makes them a loser or winner and not their past results. Keep reinforcing in our children the belief that they have a CHOICE to be a loser or winner. If they take responsibility for their results, instead of blaming, they will learn that they have the power to control their life and not let the circumstances or other people control them.
Will be back soon for more tips.
16th August 2008
Empowering Our Children to Success
Effective parents do not tell their children to excel, rather they believe in empowering their children with the strong desire, right mindset and strategies to achieve excellence in whatever they do, so that they will motivate themselves to be successful.
We must understand that all children have an inner desire to shine, to be admired and respected and to be successful. For those who are underachievers, it is not because they cannot succeed. Rather, it is because they do not know HOW to succeed. They lack the winner’s mindset, the passion and the strategies.
Thus, once we teach our children that they can succeed and show them how they can do it, they will unleash their intrinsic motivation for excellence.
In my coming post, I will be sharing with you the qualities that all achievers children possess and how we can teach and instill these qualities into our children.
Will be back soon for more empowering tips,
~ Gloria L.~
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